Dating Your Ex is written by a hands-on Relationships Coach with REAL LIFE SUCCESS helping men and women get their ex back.

I wanted to write to you to thank you. I broke up with my boyfriend of a year about 3 weeks ago. And I was devastated. A lot of my friends gave me advice about what to do (to forget him, use NC, etc.). I also read articles and bought a book that used manipulation and tricks to make your ex miss you and come running back. Through reading and searching the internet I came across your site. And after reading just one of your articles, I made the decision to buy your book, Dating your Ex, which I read twice :). I realized that I wanted my ex back but I wanted him back because he loved me not because of any tricks. And by using your effective contacting, and other methods, we started talking. And now we are back together! We are back because we love and care about each other. And we are going to do this right! A million thanks for you positivity and amazing advice!


  • Just wanted to thank you for being the voice of sanity in a sea of stupid, bad advice for repairing broken relationships. My breakup happened because he was afraid of feelings and commitment. Mainstream advice and all of my friends would have had me walking away from a perfectly wonderful person. Now we are back together, and I am very happy. Just wanted to say thanks.


  • I am not far into your book and it is already bringing me a great deal of peace. Your writing is clear and simple. From what I've read already I can tell that the techniques in the book will bring me happiness with or without efforts to see my ex, C, again. Thanks.

  • I won't bore you with a long, really complicated story. Suffice it to say that we were together, I'm very needy and he's very passive aggressive (talk about toxicity in spades) and it didn't work out.

    Break up was absolutely nasty and brutal and looong.

    We remained friendly. And one day I picked up your book and read it and read it. He and I were barely speaking at that point (from both ends). I followed a lot of it, and to my amazement, he started actually TELLING me what he wanted. Since then we've been talking more and more.

    Will we get back together? I have no idea. I don't know that I even want to. But we were always really good friends and it's lovely to no longer feel pressured and as though I must have done something wrong everytime things don't go exactly right. Thank you.

  • First of all, thank you so much! My ex is now my boyfriend again, and I truly believe it is because of the very blunt and truthful advice I read within hours of being broken up with. We became friends again, and over time we saw that we wanted to be together and missed one another very much. The best advice I had recieved was about being true to myself and really looking at the way I was acting and what my then ex had been thinking or what he wanted. I had never ever thought about my wants and needs vs my significant others wants and needs. Not only has my relationship improved with my now boyfriend, but I feel that I carried that advice into all relationships (work, family, friends etc.) You are an honest, and amazing person with such insight that helped me realize who I am. Thank you.

  • Yangki, I just wanted to say I love your eBook (and I love you). For 6mos. I tried to get my ex back with tactics and dirty games and only ended up making things worse. I bought your eBook, and the steps were so simple, yet I had missed them all this time. Last mo. my ex and I got back together. Iím so grateful to you in ways that youíll never know.

  • Yangki, I want to first of all say thank you. Three months ago, I found your blog and bought your ebook at a time when I had lost all hope because I didnít know where to start. I contacted my ex and slowly he started to respond to me even when he had said he didnít see us working out. Start of September he finally admitted that he still had strong feelings for me and was willing to give us another chance. Technically we are back together and I have you to thank for it.


More success stories on my blog.


Starting Over... Starting Afresh...
Attracting Back Your Ex

So many want their ex back, but only a few actually get their ex back.

Want to know why?


Because so many people are trying to fix, mend or recover the old relationship.


Big. Big. Mistake.


That relationship ended for a reason. Your ex doesn't want it back... and neither should you.

What your ex needs is to believe that a better relationship is possible... it's your best, and frankly, your only chance of convincing him/her to want a romantic relationship with you again.


Things Have To Feel Different, Be Better

You have to demonstrate to your ex that you're a better person and a better partner, and as a result he/she can expect a better relationship.


You can't just go to your ex and say, "I want us to have a better relationship. I want us to start afresh."

Consider that statement for a moment. If you could not make the relationship better before, what makes you think your ex will believe you are sincere about making it work better now?

See, you have a romantic history together. Your ex knows you, or at least thinks he or she knows the person he or she thinks you are. He/she is still looking at you and the possibility of a better relationship based on the past.

That's not right. You've had time to think about things you shouldn't have done but did, and things you should have done, but didn't. You've made some changes for the better, and you now realize more than ever how important your ex is to you.

Your ex doesn't know all that!


Dating Your Ex gives you the knowledge and practical tools you need to re-introduce yourself to your ex. Not the "old you" but the "new you".


The New You Can't Be Needy and Clingy...
The New You Can't Be Playing Mind Games Either... Both Work Against You!


Dating Your Ex is probably the only book on getting your ex back that does not advice you to do "No Contact".

I'll never forget when a client called me in tears. She had emailed one of those "No Contact" script emails to her ex. He wrote back "I completely agree. This relationship was so toxic that any kind of contact now or ever will pull us back to what we both don't want. I'll work on myself as you continue to work on yourself. We will both attract better people as a result. I wish you all the best in life. Please do not ever contact me again. Thank you very much".

Ooops! That's not what she expected -- and definitely NOT what she wanted!

We all want to believe our ex is pinning over us and spending much of their time thinking of us. That would really be nice! But quite often that's not what happens.

Scenario 1 -- You don't contact your ex and your ex doesn't contact you either. You both move on.

Scenario 2 -- You don't contact your ex and your ex contacts you. Nice! You respond, they respond... then suddenly... they stop contacting you. You contact them several times and... no response. Tables turned!

Scenario 3 -- You don't contact your ex for sometime... and then you contact him/her and he/she responds... but only to tell you he/she has moved on (may be with someone else!), or your ex responds every now and then but it's like you are bothering him/her or something.

Like it or not, this is the reality of No Contact! You take yourself out of the picture, you leave your ex no option but to learn to live without you. Over time your ex's life begins to change... he/she is meeting new friends... doing new things... going out to new places...etc.

You come back after your "no contact"...  A LOT has happened and changed! You don't fit into his/her "new life", or someone else has taken your place.

Like "no contact", certain strategies look really good in theory, and any advice can look good on paper, but in practice they create more emotional distance between you and your ex, and may not only make getting your ex harder, they can completely destroy your chances of a future together.

The Sooner You Get Your Ex To Envision A Better Relationship With You, The Sooner You Get Back Together!

A fresh start is the only thing that'll save your relationship. But a fresh start is only possible if you know what you are doing.

Combining rational thinking and emotional intelligence, Dating Your Ex shows you:

1. The dos and don'ts of contact in the initial stages, including which subjects to talk about and which to avoid.

2. Managing texts, emails, phone calls and face-to-face meeting -- what to use and when, how not to do too much or do too little, how to ask for a "date", how to handle that first face-to-face meeting, and subsequent dates etc.

3. How to motivate your ex to want to respond and to draw him/her in, especially if he/she responds but does not initiate contact and/or seems emotionally disengaged.

4. The nuances and intricacies of re-igniting that feeling of being in love again with someone you've dated before, may still be attracted to you, and may even still love you, but doesn't know if he/she wants to be in a relationship with you.

5. Navigating common challenges such as the "just friends" zone, sex with your ex, when there is someone else, if you should date other people, long distance relationships, etc.

6. How to use past history to re-create attraction, sense of compatibility and longing in a way that makes seeing each other again all the more appealing.

7. How to move things faster without triggering many alarm bells, and if you find that you've moved too quickly too soon, how to reset the pace so things keep moving forward.

 Handling the "let's get back together" conversation in ways that get you "Yes, I want you back".

9. How to press forward even when your ex says "I don't know about us", "I need time to think", "We want different things", or just plain, "I don't think this will work".

10. Dealing with that push-pull phase when it feels like you are back together as a couple, but then your ex pulls away, comes back and pulls away again.


11. Healthy give-and-take, and how to avoid the trap of "giving" too much to save the relationship, and in the process sabotage any future you might have had together.


12. Maintaining and strengthening your new relationship once you are back together.... and a lot more!

Starting Over In The Right Direction Makes Such a HUGE Difference!

May be you've made so many mistakes, may be (right now) you are the only one who is willing to work on the relationship, or may it just seems like the love is gone and there is nothing you can do about it, don't give up. Not yet.

Itís time to stop worrying about yesterdayís mistakes and failures; time to focus on getting your ex back.


With a plan of action proven to work with consistent positive results, you can right now start correcting the mistakes caused by earlier misguided words and actions.


Start doing things differently. Make smarter choices... choose your words more carefully... take appropriate action... move things forward

faster and with more ease.


You now have that option!


No tricks. No Mind Games.
Just Loving Intent, Words and Actions

If you are looking for dirty tricks, reverse psychology tactics or any other kind of manipulation to get your ex back... you will be disappointed with the advice in Dating Your Ex.

But if you are looking for advice that balances rational thinking with emotional feeling; the HEAD and HEART. Advice that's about CONNECTION that's genuine, deep, and lasting.... a
bout truly loving someone and having them LOVE YOU back... of their own free will.

This is it!

As you can see, I don't promise you any "sure fire ways that get you your ex back in 1 Week", or get your ex to come "back crawling and begging" etc. I trust you to know the difference between a sales pitch and genuine desire to be of help.

I didn't just "write a book" on how to get your ex back, I've dedicated my career life to helping others realize what a loving relationship can be, and if you've read my articles and my blog, and found them to be helpful, you are going to find the second edition of Dating Your Ex a great resource, tool and guide.

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