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Even if your situation
seems hopeless,
You are the
only one trying,
Your ex is with
someone else, You
Have
Tried Before
And Your Ex said "Maybe",
"I Don't Know" or
just plain "No!"
Best
case scenario: You pick up the phone and say “Hi, Remember me? Any chance you can have dinner with me
this Saturday?” You go out on Saturday. You discover
the love is still there. You date. You marry. You
live happily ever after.
Dream come true!!!!!!!!!
But
oftentimes it's not as simple as that...
So what do you do to get your ex ex back in your
life and in your arms -- where he/she belongs!.
Let's see...
Go
to your ex and tell him or her “I’ll change’ or
“I’ve changed”.
Bad move!
That says
"DESPERATE!" Desperation is not attractive at all.
More so with an ex because there is already
oversensitivity, suspicion or resistance to what you
offer as a partner.
What about telling him or her “I want us to have
a better relationship”. That should do it, right?
Bad move again!
If you couldn’t create a better relationship before
what makes you think your ex will believe you now?
Okay, may be you should make a few suggestions on
how to improve the relationship.
Good luck with that!
Your ex may listen attentively but next time you
talk to him or her, they still say there is
"something missing" or they aren't really feeling
that “feeling” they want to feel or "they don't
think it'll work". And if your ex is still pissed
off or hostile towards you for any reason, every
suggestion you make will get shot down before it has
even had a chance to fly.
May be should you then tell your ex that you want
to be
just friends?
Very risky! Your
ex might assume that all you really
want is to be “just friends”.
This will later on make it so hard
to ask him or her to get back
together without your ex feeling
“tricked”.
Okay, nothing is working. May be going "No-Contact"
will make your ex miss you and want you back.
Naaaah!
Sometimes
absence makes the heart grow fonder -- but so very
rarely with an ex especially one who broke things
off with you. Keep in mind that your ex is the very same person who said,
"It's better if we don't talk or see each other
anymore!?"
No Contact can be the fast forward button to "Baby,
it's too late
someone else has taken
your place".
Do you really want to gamble your chances on a very
high risk slim-chance "No Contact" strategy? I hope
not!
The
wrong approach, move or
strategy can have
disastrous
consequences and cost you a whole lot
more than you
anticipated...
Over the
years that I've helped re-unite couples, what I've seen work over
and over is to start afresh by dating your ex -- again.
But you can't just go to your ex and say, “I want us to have
a fresh start”.
You have a
romantic history together and that
changes the dating dynamics.
But that also gives you a major advantage over
anyone else when it comes to making your ex fall
back in love with you -- again.
It is
precisely for this reason that I've woven together
this piece of solid-gold
advice into just about every stage of dating
your ex -- again!
This ground-breaking
guide explains everything in
practical steps.
It outlines
every critical step
--
WHEN AND HOW
to make contact with your ex, to act, what to say,
how to talk about getting back together, what to do
if your ex is undecided or wants to be friends for a
start, how to handle your ex's (to be expected)
habit of
getting close and pulling back,
and how to create a relationship that is so much
more incredible than your past relationship.
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This about using love to
attract back love... You
Owe It To Yourself to
Give Yourself a
Chance at Love - Again!
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This guide is so
radically
different from other
"get back your ex" books...
Like
everyone who's ever tried to get
their ex back, you're sick of
being duped into buying books
that simply don't deliver.
You’re fed up of ‘amazing’
get your ex back books that give
half the picture and leave it up
to you to figure out the rest.
They weigh you down with tons of
"dos and don'ts" but never
actually explain the 'nuts and
bolts' of how get your ex to
open his or her heart again.
Not this eBook!
This one
comes complete with highly
effective tools you need to
carefully
weigh when it's the
right time to move to the next
stage --or not.
Why is this important? Because
you will be
able to avoid
explosive episodes
that are
common in this process and get
going surprisingly fast and with
a lot less sweat and tears than
you might expect.
I
guess the big question playing on
your mind is, “Why should I believe
you?”
You're right to ask this question.
There are so many of "this will get
your ex back" promises out there but
much of the advice is either generic
or just plain unhelpful.
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Hi, my name is
Yangki Christine
Akiteng a.k.a
Toronto's Number 1
Date Doctor
a.k.a. The Real
People's Love
Doctor. And
h ere
are
THREE really good reasons
why you can believe
me when I tell you
that this e-book can
and will absolutely,
positively help you
attract your ex
back.
#1:
The first really
good reason why you
can believe me is:
I'm living proof
that whatever you
find in my e-Book
works.
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For many years -- because of
my fear of
commitment, I was the
Queen of On-And-Off Again
Relationships. Don't even get me
started.
BUT I managed to turn things around for
myself, get back someone I had driven away
several times and had given up on me.
So yes, I’ve been right where
you’re at.
In this e-Book I take you by the
hand --literally --and lead you
step by step so that you do not
make the mistakes I made!
#2:
The second really good reason
why you can believe me is:
This is an e-Book written by a
real practicing successful
full-time Dating & Relationships
Coach with astounding success in
love reunions.
My success rate -- those who get
back with their ex and stay in
love- is about 90% and can be
higher as some people do not
write or call to tell me they
are back with their ex, may be
because they are too busy
enjoying their relationships or
are afraid that they'll somehow
jinx the relationship!
You'll
have all the benefit of my
experience and my knowledge of
what exactly works - and what
doesn't!
#3:
The third really good
reason why you can
believe me is:
I’m the author of three
other helpful e-Books
and over 300 dating and
relationships articles
that have helped
thousands worldwide transform
the way they date and
relate and increase
their chances of
attracting love and
creating the
relationships of their
dreams.
Not only will you be
able to get your ex
back, but you'll be able
to keep him or her in a
loving lasting
relationship!
Save countless hours of
time, researching, implementing
and testing to see what works...
I've already done that for you.
All you have to do is uncover
interaction and feedback
strategies
that are specific, relevant and time–bound.
Not only will the eBook help you
figure out what your ex really wants
and then give it to him or her, you
will be able to make timely,
well-considered and love-motivated
decisions and
choose the best action
possible with the information you
have available.
You will have the
COURAGE AND
CONFIDENCE to move forward because
you feel like
I am holding your hand --literally
--and leading you step by step all
the way to getting your ex back.
You will know
EXACTLY:
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when to make contact with your ex
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what to say and
how to act
when you see them again
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how to talk about getting back
together
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what to say
if your ex starts being really
negative e.g. "I don't know about
us..."
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what to do if your ex is undecided
or wants to be friends for a start |
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what to say and
how to act if your ex has another
man/woman
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what to say
if your ex doesn’t think things will
work between the two of you because
of distance
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how to handle your ex's (to be
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For the First Time...Receive
breakthrough Plan of Action
and Real-Life Examples
That Are
simple,
concise,
and most of all,
You Can
Easily Follow...
Having a roadmap makes the difference
between getting back your ex and
always struggling, or messing things up to
the point that you completely kill any
chance you might have had.
This is probably the only eBook on getting
your ex back (I know. I researched)
that's more
focused exclusively on the
active
ingredients of dialogue and core
actions key to creating real and strong
emotions that translate into liking and
love.
It does not overwhelm you with
a lot of nicely worded ideas but
answers your most frequently asked questions
clearly and succinctly.
This makes it
a handy resource you can always turn for
direction at any stage of attracting back
your ex.
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Success Story #1
The guidance and wisdom in this e-Book will
help anyone
My boyfriend and I communicated
only briefly just after he broke
it off with me. I was in
so much pain that I completely
cut off contact because that's
what I read in other "get your
ex back" books. And although I
should have known better than to
go down that road, I was so
desperate to do anything to get
him back. That didn't do
it, so I thought distance will,
and moved to another state. But
after reading your e-Book, I
realized that keeping my
distance, pretending that I had
moved on and not telling him
where I was and how I felt was
the wrong thing to do. I had
given him plenty of reason to
fall out of love with me and
here I was doing exactly the
things that made us break-up.
I did wonder though, if I stayed
away too long and if he had
gotten used to not seeing
or hearing from
me. I followed your advice
on how to re-enter his life, and
after four weeks of "friendly
but not just friends", I felt
--just as you wrote -- that the
timing for telling him I want
him back was right.
I was scared to death that he'd
not want me back, so I took the
"indirect-direct approach".
Everything I wanted to tell him
for the last 16-months we've
been apart came rushing out.
Again I followed your advice and
ended with "What
do you want to see happen?"
He took my hand kissed it and
told me he never stopped loving
me.
I have since moved back to
California and our relationship
has returned to exactly how it
was when we first began dating
-- even better.
The guidance and
wisdom in this e-Book will help
anyone, even the person who is
actively dating and looking for
love because most likely along
the way they'll make some
mistakes and lose the love they
found. It doesn't hurt to be
prepared!
Jenn C. -
Huntington
Beach, California, United States
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If you
feel like giving up
because nothing—absolutely nothing—you try works,
this guide will work for
you ...
The
last thing you need right now is to simply be
told,
“Don’t be stupid. Move on", "Find someone new",
"There is plenty of fish in the sea”,
"I never liked him anyway," or "I never
understood what you saw in her," and the
ever-popular line, "Honestly, you'll be better
off without him/her!"
Instead of living your life running away from
what you don't want, try running towards what
you do - and that is get back together with your
ex!
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Success
Story #2
Positive
good
advice
is
exactly
what I
needed!
I
received
an email
from him
yesterday
saying
he
missed
me, and
I have
been
thinking
about it
ever
since. I
have
reasons
to be
cheerful.
This is
the
second
time in
two days
he has
emailed
me
saying
he
enjoys
spending
time
with me
again.
This
e-Book
is a
complete
contrast
to
almost
everything
I have
done to
try to
get back
my ex in
the last
six
weeks.
The
advice
is
overwhelmingly
positive
compared
to all
the
negative
advice
I’ve be
getting
about
second
chances
and
being
told he
is not
that
into me.
I could
actually
feel
your
love and
genuine
caring
in each
and
every
page!
Positive
good
advice
is
exactly
what I
needed!
My
chances
seem
really
good and
I am
excited
thinking,
“what
next?
May be
he is
reconsidering
his
options".
I am
however
not
rushing
into
interpretation
of the
sudden
change.
Right
now I am
just
glad for
the time
together.
This
makes so
much
sense to
me,
guess
why a
lot of
my
relationships
before
my ex,
and
since my
ex have
been 2
months
duration
in
total,
cause I
would
wear it
out in
the
beginning.
Well,
now I am
learning
to take
a step
back,
and let
love be
a slow
process.
Yvette -
Holliston,
Massachusetts,
United
States
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Wouldn't It Be Worth
it to spend a few
dollars and quickly Get a plan to get your ex
back real soon?
This book works even for
long distance relationships --
another city, state, country
or continent!
Distance can't stop true
love!!! And Dating
Your ex is all about true
love. No dirty tricks
and no mind games.
Only love.
So yes, you may not be able
to physically be there with
your ex, but you will be
able to establish proactive
communication which offers a
sense of bonding and creates
a yearning that
makes
seeing each other
again all the more
appealing!
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Success Story #3
It worked wonders for my
long distance relationship!
I would like to thank you for your book.
Before I bought it, I did wonder if
it would work or not. Because of my complete
lack of experience, the woman I love had not spoken to me in 4 months.
We got into
a fight and it
got down and dirty. I wasn’t respecting her need for
relationship security and she wasn't
respecting my need for freedom. So the break-up was mutual.
But
I kept seeing her at parties and I felt
as if there was still something there.
I
read
your e-Book and realized that to get her
back I had to learn how
to be emotionally intimate with her and not fear
to speak my mind and ask for what I want
directly, something I really struggled with before.
I followed your advice and got my ex back.
No one ever explained emotional intimacy to
me the way you explained it. I
totally get it now. We are both getting
exactly what we wanted from
each other. Our bond has grown
stronger and laughter flows easily.
I wholeheartedly recommend this e-Book.
It hit home on many of the topics that I've
struggled with, or needed more info on ... I
think you have compiled a great resource, in
a very straight forward nuts and bolts book.
Drew H. - Atlanta, Georgia,
United States
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You can start taking action right
away...
Knowing that you are taking
the first steps to actually getting
your ex back can make you feel a
whole lot better -- and fast!
Using the real-time
strategies in my eBook,
you can start correcting the problems
caused by earlier misguided
words and actions,
open up new possibilities,
regain your ex's trust, melt
objections away and truly,
deeply engage your ex starting
from day one!
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Success Story #4
It's
fantastic... insightful... to
the point...
My ex and I have
been doing the on
and off thing for
about two years and
2 months. We split
and got back back
together 3 times. A
year and a half ago,
we broke up again
and I guess we both
had had enough and
decided that it was
never going to work
out.
Days after reading
your e-Book, I
called her. We went
out and I told her
I've been reading
"Dating Your Ex" and
many things in the
e-Book made me
realize how I could
have done things
differently with
her. She came over
to my place and we
talked. I asked her
if she wanted to
give it another
chance but she said
that she didn't know
yet. She left and
told me she'd get
back to me in a few
days. After a week
of not hearing from
her, I called her
but she didn't take
my call and didn't
reply to any of my
emails. She sent me
one short email
saying "Working
through some stuff.
Will get back to you
in a few days". I
must admit I was a
little ticked off.
Exactly two weeks
and four days later,
she showed up at my
doorstep. Her exact
words when I opened
the door were, "True
love overcomes all
the three!"
Apparently she went
and bought your
e-Book too .
She's definitely THE
ONE! I don't feel
like I am dating my
ex, I feel like I am
dating a new woman!
We're both better
people from before
and our relationship
has never been this
great.
I highly recommend
Christine's e-Book.
It's fantastic,
insightful... to the
point.
Alberto Gonzales -
Windsor, Ontario,
Canada
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Inside this
247-pages Step-By-Step Guide
are several
KEY points…
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How do you know if you should
ask to try again or try to move on?
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10
things you can do to make sure you
have success
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When does "no contact"
work and when doesn't it work?
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When is it acceptable to contact
your ex again after a break-up -
when is soon too soon?
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What
to do if there has
been so much damage done to the
relationship
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How to
deal with and respond to an
angry, indifferent or hostile ex in
a way that will cause him or her to
put his or her guard down
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How do you initiate
contact after a
period of no communication at all?
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The powerful apology that holds much
hope for the future.
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How do you
inspire your ex to want to spend
time with you -- talk to you on the
phone and go out on dates with you?
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How do you know if your ex wants you
back? Words and actions that tell
you that the ball is in your court.
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When
is the right time to ask your ex if
he or she wants to get back
together? |
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How
to talk about getting back together .
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How do you get past "No"
and get to
"Yes"? |
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Some
common barriers and how to remove
them |
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If
your ex asks for more
time, how long do you wait for an
answer? |
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If
your ex wants to try being
friends to start with, how do you
cause him or her to rethink
your “friendship” and open up to the
possibility of something more?
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How do you prove to your ex
that you have changed and deserve
another chance? |
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It's your ex
who wants you back, how do you make sure
you don't get hurt again?
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Ex sex - will it reignite the passion
and what do you do if you're already
into sex and your ex seems content with just being
sex-buddies?
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How do you know when your ex is
just using you and stringing you along
and how do you tell him or her what
you want? |
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How
do you handle the connecting and
pulling back again?
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The "secret"
that will guarantee
your relationship will
last.
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It's been a while and your ex isn't
exactly clawing your clothes off.
What gives?
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What do you do when you feel that
you are giving too much and getting
nothing or little in return?
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How to keep the passion alive and
the relationship fresh
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Signs that your relationship
is blossoming, maturing and going the right direction.
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Warning signs that say your relationship is
heading towards another break-up.
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Handling situations that may lead to another
break-up. |
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When
and how to ask for exclusivity
and/or more commitment?
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...And much more...
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So what Will you
give
up for love?
But rather, what
won't you give up for love?
Not giving up on love is not just a
matter of pressing forward and not
giving up, you have to make sure
what you are doing is working otherwise
doing what's not working can cause more
damage to any chances of reconciliation.
You have to
know what you are
doing.
Many men and women when I tell them that
you need a plan of action if you want to
get your ex back ask me “why can’t I
just call him/her up and tell him/her I
want him/her back? Isn’t life all about
taking risks?”
You can jump off the 20th Floor of a
building believing that life is all
about taking risks but what are your
chances of survival? One out of a
zillion.
But if you had some kind of parachute or
an
action plan that would guarantee you
that you'd land safely on your two feet,
wouldn't you take the risk,
enjoy the ride and land safely?
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a BREAK UP doesn't
always mean the end of a
relationship... things
can be re-started!
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I am
sure
there is
someone that you need
to Get Back
...
May be right now you feel
that there is just no hope.
I can understand that.
Most people who have lost
someone they care for deeply
are, feel lost and hopeless.
You have no idea what your
ex wants, and you can act
and talk to your ex without
him/her getting all worked
up. If this is you, take
heart.
Your situation may not feel as
as hopeless once you have a
clear, actionable and proven
step-by-step plan for attracting
back back your loved one.
The "emotional
tools" in the eBook
helps you face the process
with more confidence, but
more than that, they show
you
EXACTLY how to
be the person your ex fell
in love with -- and
renew the attraction your ex
had for you.
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Success Story #5
Worth every penny!
I bought your
e-Book and read all of it in one
night. The next day, I called my ex
and asked him to meet me for coffee.
We hadn’t seen or spoken to each
other since he broke up with me last
month. He was a little cold at first
but I followed your advice on
persisting without being aggressive
and he agreed. I again followed your
advice on introducing the idea of
getting back together and he said
that he didn’t think I have changed
in such a short time but was ready
to be friends for a start.
At first I was the one who called
him and he never called me unless I
called him, so again I used your
advice on drawing someone into
the decision making process. He
started to call me instead of me
calling him all the time. He has
asked me out two times in a row. He
says I am a “different” woman
because I am more relaxed and not
putting pressure on him to do what I
now know will happen naturally. I am
following your advice on keeping the
relationship fresh, fun and
meaningful. Everything you wrote in
your e-Book has worked this far, I
am confident that everything else is
going to work too. I will email you
again in a few weeks to tell you how
things are going.
Thank you very much. Worth every
penny!
Dr. Armando- Toronto, Ontario, Canada
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You just have to accept that
your love
is worth saving!
Time passes, all too
quickly. Blink... your ex is
gone. Hesitate - he or
she thinks you've moved on.
Pause - some other man or
woman has taken your place.
Negative? Excruciating?
Depressing? Sad?
Painful thoughts, yes, but
theses are nothing compared
to the
lifelong regrets that
you will suffer with words
left unspoken and those
things that were never done because you didn't have the
courage to reach out to the
person you dearly care for
and love.
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Success Story #6
I needed to do things very
differently...
Several times I invited my ex out to
do things and he declined the offer.
It always left me feeling
crushed and rejected.
After reading "Dating
Your Ex" I thought I'd give it
another try using the
"cooperation-seeking" approach. He
gave me his usual distant and kind of cold
brush off, but I did the "there'll
be a next time" move and to my utter
surprise he said "what do you want
to do?". I've never had this kind
of reaction from him before. We
watched a movie and went for ice
cream. Neither of us brought up
anything too heavy during
conversation, which was cool. As we
parted, I asked him if he would like
to do something else some time and
he said "sure, give me a call". He
later called to see if I reached
home. He has never
called me since
we broke up.
I am so glad I never gave up on my
ex. Everyone told me he was a
no-good jerk but in my heart I knew
I was not perfect either. I am
concentrating on being a better me
and being careful to act sensibly
and focusing on the present and the
future rather than the past.
Thank you for the
good sound and candid advice.
I needed to do things very
differently.
Carolynne --
Louisville,
Kentucky,
United States
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When confusion sets in and your
decisions are clouded by your emotions,
it is best to reach out for a helping
hand!
If there are things – good, bad, and
ugly – about your ex that still warm
your heart (and, um, loins?), if you can
remember more good than bad things about
the time you were together, give
love a chance!!.
Buy the eBook and if there are is
something about your unique situation
that you need help clarifying, putting
into perspective or overcoming,
simply email me with your unique
situation or call me for a
30 MINUTES FREE PHONE chat.
Most authors do not offer this kind of
help when you buy their books, for me
this is not just about selling a book,
this is about re-uniting two people who
are meant to be together.
This new chapter
of your relationship
can be even more
exciting and fulfilling than the last
one!
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Success Story #7
I recommend this
book to anyone currently contemplating
giving up...
My girlfriend of 2 yrs and I
got back together last
night. We broke up 6 weeks
ago but continued hanging
out together because we
really enjoy each other’s
company and we are best
friends. We were friends
before we became lovers and
I NEVER thought she would
dump me. She
frequently told me that I
was "the one" and that we
would always be together.
But she dumped me!!
Needless to say, I was
crushed and I tried
everything (WUSS) and it
didn't work. All I got from
her was "You are a great
guy, but I'm not in love
with you".
At this point, I just
realized all hope was lost
and started working on
moving on. That's when I
came across your website.
I bought your e-Book and
followed every step. Last
night she stayed at my place
and we sat from around
midnight to morning talking
about “us”. We just kissed
and held hands. She was
surprised that her
toothbrush was still in the
holder on the sink. She told
me she wants to get back
together and to let whatever
happens, happen.
I recommend this book to
anyone who is currently
contemplating giving up the
hopes of getting their ex
back.
Kenny --
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