It's possible to turn things around if you KNOW
what you ARE DOING!!!

 

You've tried BEGGING -- pleaded, apologized, written long love notes, sent gifts, and promised your ex heaven -- but all that did was make you come across as needy, desperate and "emotionally weak".
 

You've also tried LOGIC and REASON -- told your ex why the two of you should be together, why you think the relationship will work and even brought up all the wonderful times together -- but that only made your ex more resistant.

 

LAST RESORT! You don't want to do it, but you believe you have no other choice but to cut of all contact and make your ex realize just how much he or she still loves you and misses you...

 

Thinking that your ex will miss you because you're no longer contacting them is admirable confidence. We all want to believe our ex is pinning over us and spending much of their time thinking of us. That would really be nice!

 

Realistic? Not so much!

 

Take one... You don't contact your ex and your ex doesn't contact you either. The End.
 

Take two... You don't contact your ex and your ex contacts you. Nice!

 

You respond, they respond... then suddenly... they stop contacting you. You contact them several times and... NO CONTACT. Ha ha ha! Tables turned!

 

Not funny!
 

Take three... You don't contact your ex... and then you contact him or her... and he or she responds... but only to tell you they've MOVED ON (may be with someone else!) You poured all your emotions, time and energy trying so hard not to contact your ex -- BUT your ex still doesn't want you back. Even worse, someone else has taken your place.

 

Like it or not, this is the reality!
 

You take yourself out of the picture. You leave your ex no option but to learn to live without you. Over time your ex's life begins to change... he or she is meeting new friends... doing new things... going out to new places...etc. You come back after your "No Contact" ...  A LOT has happened and changed!!!

 

 

No Communication = No relationship


Walking away from the situation or cutting off lines of communication when you should be doing everything within your power to rebuild the relationship is a serious relationship mistake.

 

When the "no contact" rule first came into the picture, few people knew about it. Many, unaware of their own fear of rejection and abandonment fell to the lure of reverse psychology. Thanks to the internet, EVERYONE including your ex knows that "No Contact" is a reverse psychology trick.

 

A woman emailed me in tears. She had emailed one of those "No Contact" script emails to her ex... he wrote back "I completely agree. This relationship was so toxic that any kind of contact now or ever will pull us back to what we both don't want. I'll work on myself as you continue to work on yourself. We will both attract better people as a result. I wish you all the best in life. Please do not ever contact me again. Thank you very much".

 

Ooops! That's not what she expected -- and definitely NOT what she wanted!


 

Not Just Any Kind Of Contact


For there to be a relationship, there has to be some form of contact. That's just common sense. But here is the thing... contact and communication are NOT the same thing!

 

You can work so hard on how long to wait before contacting your ex or how many times a week to text him/her... and many of you have tried. But when you do make contact... no response. And even when they do respond, it's like you are bothering them or something...

 

The problem is not that you are contacting your ex... the problem is that you are not communicating in a way that creates a desire in your ex not just to respond but to start seeing things in a different light.

 

Contact to just contact is like someone who shows up to work exactly when they are supposed to but does absolutely no work. He/she just sits there waiting for the day to end so that he/she shows up again tomorrow - on time.

Showed up alright, but achieved nothing!

What you are communicating --the emotions touched and inspired, and the feeling that things can be good again or better -- is what eventually makes someone want to come back. Anything else is a bridge to nowhere.

 

 

BALANCED and EFFECTIVE Communication

 

Yes, it can be difficult, even painful staying in contact with your ex, but it pays off BIG TIME, done the RIGHT WAY!

 

It is precisely for this reason that I've woven together this piece of solid-gold advice into just about every stage of getting back together with your ex...
 

This ground-breaking guide explains everything in practical steps. It outlines every critical step in the process of getting your ex to open his or heart to you again. It shows how you  how to maintain contact with your ex in an impact-full way -- what to say and how to act in ways that demonstrate to your ex that you're a better person and a better partner, and as a result they can expect a better relationship.

 

Before I go any further, I want you to read some of the things people are saying about the effectiveness of Dating Your Ex approach to getting your ex back...
 

 


It's fantastic... insightful... to the point...

My ex and I have been doing the on and off thing for about two years and 2 months. We split and got back back together 3 times. A year and a half ago, we broke up again and I guess we both had had enough and decided that it was never going to work out.

Days after reading your e-Book, I called her. We went out and I told her I've been reading "Dating Your Ex" and many things in the e-Book made me realize how I could have done things differently with her. She came over to my place and we talked. I asked her if she wanted to give it another chance but she said that she didn't know yet. She left and told me she'd get back to me in a few days. After a week of not hearing from her, I called her but she didn't take my call and didn't reply to any of my emails. She sent me one short email saying "Working through some stuff. Will get back to you in a few days". I must admit I was a little ticked off. Exactly two weeks and four days later, she showed up at my doorstep. Her exact words when I opened the door were, "True love overcomes all the three!" Apparently she went and bought your e-Book too .

She's definitely THE ONE! I don't feel like I am dating my ex, I feel like I am dating a new woman! We're both better people from before and our relationship has never been this great.

I highly recommend Christine's e-Book. It's fantastic, insightful... to the point.

Alberto Gonzales - Windsor, Ontario, Canada
 


The guidance and wisdom in this eBook
will help anyone

My boyfriend and I communicated only briefly just after he broke it off with me.  I was in so much pain that I completely cut off contact because that's what I read in other "get your ex back" books. And although I should have known better than to go down that road, I was so desperate to do anything to get him back.  That didn't do it, so I thought distance will, and moved to another state. But after reading your e-Book, I realized that keeping my distance, pretending that I had moved on and not telling him where I was and how I felt was the wrong thing to do. I had given him plenty of reason to fall out of love with me and here I was doing exactly the things that made us break-up. 

I did wonder though, if I stayed away too long and if he had gotten  used to not seeing or hearing from me.  I followed your advice on how to re-enter his life, and after four weeks of "friendly but not just friends", I felt --just as you wrote -- that the timing for telling him I want him back was right.  I was scared to death that he'd not want me back, so I took the "indirect-direct approach".  Everything I wanted to tell him for the last 16-months we've been apart came rushing out. Again I followed your advice and ended with "What do you want to see happen?" He took my hand kissed it and told me he never stopped loving me.

I have since moved back to California and our relationship has returned to exactly how it was when we first began dating -- even better.

The guidance and wisdom in this e-Book will help anyone, even the person who is actively dating and looking for love because most likely along the way they'll make some mistakes and lose the love they found. It doesn't hurt to be prepared!

Jenn C. - Huntington Beach, California, United States
 

 

 

Dating Your Ex is a FRESH START


You have a better chance dating your ex than
trying to mend or fix a broken relationship

 

The reason many never get their ex back is because they try to mend of fix a broken relationship. It's called a "break-up" for a reason. Relationships are by nature fragile... those with a relatively shorter period are even more fragile because there was not  much to hold it together. Trying to mend of fix a broken relationship is doing the almost impossible.

 

So is trying to STOP a break-up. You are already broken up. IT HAS HAPPENED. You can't UNDO something that's already happened. You can't undo the past. You can't "unsay" what's been said. You just can't! No wonder many get frustrated trying to stop a break-up -- and give up.

 

Dating Your Ex is about re-doing it all over - but BETTER. If you really think about it, you do not want the "old relationship"... and neither does your ex.

 

But here is the tricky part... You have a romantic history together and that changes the dating dynamics. But that also gives you a major advantage over anyone else when it comes to making your ex fall back in love with you -- again.

 

In my book, I've made sure that you use that advantage in the best possible way. I take you by the hand --literally --and lead you step by step so that you will not only be able to get your ex back, but you'll be able to keep him or her in a loving lasting relationship!

 


I needed to do things very differently...

Several times I invited my ex out to do things and he declined the offer. It always left me feeling crushed and rejected.

After reading "Dating Your Ex" I thought I'd give it another try using the "cooperation-seeking" approach. He gave me his usual distant and kind of cold brush off, but I did the "there'll be a next time" move and to my utter surprise he said "what do you want to do?". I've never had this kind of reaction from him before. We watched a movie and went for ice cream. Neither of us brought up anything too heavy during conversation, which was cool. As we parted, I asked him if he would like to do something else some time and he said "sure, give me a call". He later called to see if I reached home. He has never called me since we broke up.

I am so glad I never gave up on my ex. Everyone told me he was a no-good jerk but in my heart I knew I was not perfect either. I am concentrating on being a better me and being careful to act sensibly and focusing on the present and the future rather than the past.

Thank you for the good sound and candid advice. I needed to do things very differently. 

Carolynne -- Louisville, Kentucky, United States
 

But May be You Think Your Relationship is so damaged That It Is too Late For You...

Damaged... may be.  Too late... may be not?

We all have said things and done things we wish we had not said or done. So yes, may be you've made so many mistakes or may it just seems like the love is gone and there is nothing you can do about it.

But it doesn't necessarily mean you can't turn things around! Love can be beat up by so many things going on in the relationship. It can grow weak due to failure to nurture it. But if you're willing to do whatever it takes to give it a chance to flourish again, it CAN and it WILL.

May be you're thinking "You just don't know my ex. Nothing will work."

And you're right! I don't know your ex the way you do. And may be s/he is really angry with you... but that's exactly where you need to start...

Dating Your Ex tells you exactly how to deal with an angry ex, one who wants no contact, one who still loves you but is resisting his or her feelings, one who is setting up roadblock after roadblock...
 


 This is the best advice I have found! 

I have read your eBook and I love it!  It is the best advice I have found. EVER! And believe me, I have been looking because I have been divorced 3 times and I wanted to stay married this last time, but didn't make it happen.  I made all the mistakes possible.  Now, we are dating.  I started to make the same mistakes again and, fortunately I downloaded the eBook.  Now, I know it is possible that we might get back together, and before reading it, it was guaranteed that we wouldn't just based on my stupid and needy behavior.  How can I help you get the eBook out there even more?  It's so worth it.

Susan
 

Inside this 280-pages Step-By-Step Guide are several KEY points

Key attractors that will ensure success

Creating healthy distance without doing "no contact"

What to do if there has been so much damage done to the relationship

Initiating contact after a period of no communication

How to act on phone and how to ask your ex out

How to act when you meet up with your ex
What to do and how to act when your ex wants no contact

How to get your ex to warm up to you again

Winning back your ex even when there is someone else

When and how to talk about getting back together without creating any pressure

How to handle things if your ex wants to be "just friends"

What to do if your ex seems content with just being sex-buddies

Handling the pull and push phase

What to say and do when your ex wants more time to decide

How to show your ex that you have changed and deserve another chance

How to persistently push forward when things seem not to be going anywhere

Red flags your ex is stringing you along/using you

...And much more...


I guess the big question on your mind is,
“Why should I believe you?”
 

 

Hi, my name is Yangki Christine Akiteng a.k.a Toronto's Number 1 Date Doctor a.k.a. The Dating Your Ex Coach. 

 

I'm just one of the many authors of "Get Back Your Ex Back" books-- and we are many! If you do a little check up, you'll find that many of these books are written by men and women who have good theories and good intentions (besides money, of course), but very few of these authors have the practical hands-on-knowledge and experience uniting couples.

 

I have the KNOWLEDGE and I have practical hands-on EXPERIENCE!

 

With Dating Your Ex, you have the benefit of not just the knowledge of "how to get your ex back" but PRACTICAL EXPERIENCE of what works in REAL LIFE -- and what doesn't.


This is an e-Book written by a real practicing successful full-time Dating & Relationships Coach with astounding success in love reunions.  My success rate -- those who get back with their ex and stay in love- is about 90% and can be higher as some people do not write or call to tell me they are back with their ex, may be because they are too busy enjoying their relationships or are afraid that they'll somehow jinx the relationship! 

 
 

Save countless hours In Trial and
Error Approaches...


In all the years that I've helped re-unite couples, there is ONE thing that I've learned... and that is... technique, dirty tricks and mind games can get you only so far and get you only so much. You get to a certain point and things either stall... or start getting worse. The more you try this technique, that dirty trick or mind game, the worse things get. Why? Because technique, dirty tricks and mind games are not about love.
 

With Dating Your Ex, you go straight to the business of getting your ex back confident that you're backed up by real-life experiences and not just some theories about what it takes to get one's ex back.

 

This is probably the only eBook on getting your ex back (I know. I researched) that's more focused exclusively on the active ingredients of dialogue and core actions key to creating real and strong emotions that translate into liking and love. Many books just tell you what dirty trick to play or what'll make your ex want you back but do not give you the "words" that get an ex thinking "oh wow! this can actually work."

Not only will the eBook help you figure out what your ex really wants and then give it to him or her, you will be able to make timely, well-considered and love-motivated decisions and choose the best action possible with the information you have available.
 

You Will Absolutely Love This!

There are so many things that make Dating Your Ex different from all other "get your ex back" books! But if you needed more to convince you just how different this book is... here it is!

Most books have little "secrets" that your ex shouldn't know about... Sneaky dirty tricks, mind games and stuff that'll supposedly mess up your ex so bad that they'll be begging you to take them back.

Yeah right! As if...

But let's even assume for a second these dirty "secrets" exist... What does it say about you? That you're a looser who has nothing to offer to a a partner and no real relationships to make someone want you just for you... so you resort to manipulating and tricking someone into love you?

What kind of person messes up and ex's mind then takes back that same "messed up" ex? Seriously?

Dating Your Ex is all about transparency. The relationship building tools in the book can be used by both you and your ex... TWO-GETHER.... to create a relationship that's much better!

How about that? Instead of you alone trying to figure things out -- you can actually buy your ex a copy of the eBook and instead of the useless conversations about nothing in particular, you ask your ex... "what do you think of page x..." or "we didn't do very well on y... may be we can do it better this time..."

And here you were wondering what kind of conversation to have with your ex... to convince him or her that things can be better. 


 


Positive good advice is exactly what I needed!

I received an email from him yesterday saying he missed me, and I have been thinking about it ever since. I have reasons to be cheerful. This is the second time in two days he has emailed me saying he enjoys spending time with me again.

This e-Book is a complete contrast to almost everything I have done to try to get back my ex in the last six weeks. The advice is overwhelmingly positive compared to all the negative advice I’ve be getting about second chances and being told he is not that into me. I could actually feel your love and genuine caring in each and every page! Positive good advice is exactly what I needed!

My chances seem really good and I am excited thinking, “what next? May be he is reconsidering his options". I am however not rushing into interpretation of the sudden change. Right now I am just glad for the time together.

This makes so much sense to me, guess why a lot of my relationships before my ex, and since my ex have been 2 months duration in total, cause I would wear it out in the beginning. Well, now I am learning to take a step back, and let love be a slow process.

Yvette - Holliston, Massachusetts, United States
 

Is There Someone Else In The Picture?
Let That Not Discourage You...

Most people when they hear that their ex is looking around or now seeing someone new feel hopeless.

But your situation may not feel as as hopeless once you have a clear, actionable and proven step-by-step plan for attracting back back your loved one. A whole chapter is committed to dealing with the presence of someone new in your ex's life. The "emotional tools" in the eBook help you face the process with more confidence, but more than that they show you how to renew the attraction your ex had for you despite there being someone new in your ex's life.

 

Not Even Distance Should Stop You...

 

Dating Your Ex works even for long distance relationships -- another city, state, country or continent! 

 

So yes, you may not be able to physically be there with your ex, but you will be able to establish proactive communication which offers a sense of bonding and creates a yearning that makes seeing each other again all the more appealing!


 


It worked for my long distance relationship!

I would like to thank you for your book. Before I bought it, I did wonder if it would work or not. Because of my complete lack of experience, the woman I love had not spoken to me in 4 months. We got into a fight and it got down and dirty. I wasn’t respecting her need for relationship security and she wasn't respecting my need for freedom.  So the break-up was mutual. But I kept seeing her at parties and I felt as if there was still something there. 

I read your e-Book and realized that to get her back I had to learn how to be emotionally intimate with her and not fear to speak my mind and ask for what I want directly, something I really struggled with before. I followed your advice and got my ex back.

No one ever explained emotional intimacy to me the way you  explained it. I totally get it now. We are both getting exactly what we wanted from each other. Our bond has grown stronger and laughter flows easily.

I wholeheartedly recommend this e-Book. It hit home on many of the topics that I've struggled with, or needed more info on ... I think you have compiled a great resource, in a very straight forward nuts and bolts book.

Drew H. - Atlanta, Georgia, United States
 

Stop making Things Worse...

If you're doing everything you can to get your ex back, but getting the exact opposite results, chances are you're making things worse and could potentially completely kill any chance you might have had.

Not giving up on love is not just a matter of pressing forward, you have to make sure what you are doing is working otherwise doing what's not working can cause more damage to any chances of reconciliation.

You have to know what you are doing.
Many men and women when I tell them that you need a plan of action if you want to get your ex back ask me “why can’t I just call him/her up and tell him/her I want him/her back? Isn’t life all about taking risks?”

You can jump off the 20th Floor of a building believing that life is all about taking risks but what are your chances of survival? One out of a zillion.

But if you had some kind of parachute or an action plan that would guarantee you that you'd land safely on your two feet, wouldn't you take the risk, enjoy the ride and land safely?

 
 


Worth every penny!

I bought your e-Book and read all of it in one night. The next day, I called my ex and asked him to meet me for coffee. We hadn’t seen or spoken to each other since he broke up with me last month. He was a little cold at first but I followed your advice on persisting without being aggressive and he agreed. I again followed your advice on introducing the idea of getting back together and he said that he didn’t think I have changed in such a short time but was ready to be friends for a start.

At first I was the one who called him and he never called me unless I called him, so again I used your advice on drawing someone into the decision making process. He started to call me instead of me calling him all the time. He has asked me out two times in a row. He says I am a “different” woman because I am more relaxed and not putting pressure on him to do what I now know will happen naturally. I am following your advice on keeping the relationship fresh, fun and meaningful. Everything you wrote in your e-Book has worked this far, I am confident that everything else is going to work too. I will email you again in a few weeks to tell you how things are going.

Thank you very much. Worth every penny!

Dr. Armando- Toronto, Ontario, Canada
 

A Break-Up Can Mean A New Beginning!

 

If there are things – good, bad, and ugly – about your ex that still warm your heart (and, um, loins?), if you can remember more good than bad things about the time you were together, give love a chance!!

This new chapter of your relationship can be even more exciting and fulfilling than the last one!

To put it simply, if you’re serious about winning back the heart of your ex, this eBook gives you the knowledge and practical tools you need to make your ex feel those feelings of love again, even if (right now) you are the only one who is willing to work on the relationship!
 


I recommend this book to anyone currently contemplating giving up...

My girlfriend of 2 yrs and I got back together last night. We broke up 6 weeks ago but continued hanging out together because we really enjoy each other’s company and we are best friends. We were friends before we became lovers and I NEVER thought she would dump me.  She frequently told me that I was "the one" and that we would always be together. But she dumped me!!

Needless to say, I was crushed and I tried everything (WUSS) and it didn't work. All I got from her was "You are a great guy, but I'm not in love with you".

At this point, I just realized all hope was lost and started working on moving on. That's when I came across your website.  I bought your e-Book and followed every step. Last night she stayed at my place and we sat from around midnight to morning talking about “us”. We just kissed and held hands. She was surprised that her toothbrush was still in the holder on the sink. She told me she wants to get back together and to let whatever happens, happen.

I recommend this book to anyone who is currently contemplating giving up the hopes of getting their ex back.

Kenny -- West Des Moines, Iowa, United States
 
 

 

Never Say Goodbye
When You Still Feel You Can...

Don’t give up”, “Don't stop trying”. You probably hear this all the time. When people say it, they make it sound so easy. All too often, what they mean is that all you have to do is stubbornly refuse to quit or take “no” for an answer. Just hang in there, and somehow things will work themselves out to your favour.

What happens when you combine a slippery road and a downhill slope? Skidding.

There’s more to “giving it all you can” than just having a “never give up” attitude. Dating Your Ex helps you make several changes to your thinking so that you can focus all your energy even past the point where everyone else would give up.

 


Anything is possible despite how things look at the moment...

Two months ago I could never have believed that we could be back together. My ex told me he wanted nothing to do with me and he was moving on, even started dating another woman.

And for weeks I was wallowing around in confusion. I wasn't sure what to do next.  Then I came across your e-Book. I did exactly the stuff that you talked about and I attracted him back into my life.

To everyone there, I just want to say everything is possible despite how things look at the moment.  Read Christine's book, it's amazing and her advice really works. Thank you so much.

Darlene S. Vancouver British Columbia Canada
 


Even If Right Now Your Ex Is Unwilling...

 

Getting your ex back is easier when your ex is open to the possibility. But this may not be the case for you... at least not in the beginning.


Dating Your Ex shows you how to change your ex's attitude even if your ex says they don't think it'll work:
 

Turn the conversation around and capture your ex's attention and affection.

Diffuse your ex's anger and resentment by showing your ex that you “get it.

Initiate small conversations without stirring up confrontation.
Keep calm and in control of your emotions even if your ex makes you angry.

End the unhelpful behaviours and replace them with positive actions.

Using the real-time strategies in my eBook, you can start correcting the problems caused by earlier misguided words and actions, open up new possibilities, regain your ex's trust, melt objections away and truly, deeply engage your ex starting from day one!

 
 
You Can Start Turning This Around
Today, Right Now!
 

Knowing that you are taking the first steps to actually getting your ex back can make you feel a whole lot better -- and fast!

Thousands of people are already using the BEST WAY to make someone fall in love with you again, applying these proven effective strategies and following these exact steps -- and they are seeing the feelings of love begin to come back as they they proceed in progressive stages of getting their ex back.

And now YOU can do the same!

If my eBook is not everything I promised and more...if it's not what you've been searching for all this time...then simply contact us and ask for a refund. No harm. No foul.
 



 

 
 

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