Even if your situation seems hopeless, You are the only one trying, Your ex is with someone else, You Have Tried Before And Your Ex said "Maybe",  "I Don't Know" or just plain "No!"


Best case scenario: You pick up the phone and say “Hi, Remember me? Any chance you can have dinner with me this Saturday?” You go out on Saturday. You discover the love is still there. You date. You marry. You live happily ever after.

Dream come true!!!!!!!!!
 

But oftentimes it's not as simple as that...


So what do you do to get your ex ex back in your life and in your arms -- where he/she belongs!.

Let's see...

Go to your ex and tell him or her “I’ll change’ or “I’ve changed”.

Bad move! That says "DESPERATE!" Desperation is not attractive at all. More so with an ex because there is already oversensitivity, suspicion or resistance to what you offer as a partner.

What about telling him or her “I want us to have a better relationship”. That should do it, right?

Bad move again! If you couldn’t create a better relationship before what makes you think your ex will believe you now?

Okay, may be you should make a few suggestions on how to improve the relationship.
 

Good luck with that! Your ex may listen attentively but next time you talk to him or her, they still say there is "something missing" or they aren't really feeling that “feeling” they want to feel or "they don't think it'll work". And if your ex is still pissed off or hostile towards you for any reason, every suggestion you make will get shot down before it has even had a chance to fly.
 

May be should you then tell your ex that you want to be just friends?
 

Very risky! Your ex might assume that all you really want is to be “just friends”.  This will later on make it so hard to ask him or her to get back together without your ex feeling “tricked”.
 

Okay, nothing is working. May be going "No-Contact" will make your ex miss you and want you back.
 

Naaaah!  Sometimes absence makes the heart grow fonder -- but so very rarely with an ex especially one who broke things off with you.  Keep in mind that your ex is the very same person who said, "It's better if we don't talk or see each other anymore!?"

 

No Contact can be the fast forward button to "Baby, it's too late someone else has taken your place".  Do you really want to gamble your chances on a very high risk slim-chance "No Contact" strategy? I hope not! 
 

The wrong approach, move or strategy can have disastrous consequences and cost you a whole lot more than you anticipated...

Over the years that I've helped re-unite couples, what I've seen work over and over is to start afresh by dating your ex -- again.

But you can't just go to your ex and say, “I want us to have a fresh start”. You have a romantic history together and that changes the dating dynamics. But that also gives you a major advantage over anyone else when it comes to making your ex fall back in love with you -- again.

It is precisely for this reason that I've woven together this piece of solid-gold advice into just about every stage of dating your ex -- again!
 

This ground-breaking guide explains everything in practical steps. It  outlines every critical step -- WHEN AND HOW to make contact with your ex, to act, what to say, how to talk about getting back together, what to do if your ex is undecided or wants to be friends for a start, how to handle your ex's (to be expected) habit of getting close and pulling back, and how to create a relationship that is so much more incredible than your past relationship.

 

This about using love to attract back love... You Owe It To Yourself to Give Yourself a
Chance at Love - Again!


This guide is so radically different from other
"get back your ex" books...

Like everyone who's ever tried to get their ex back, you're sick of being duped into buying books that simply don't deliver. You’re fed up of  ‘amazing’ get your ex back books that give half the picture and leave it up to you to figure out the rest. They weigh you down with tons of "dos and don'ts" but never actually explain the 'nuts and bolts' of how get your ex to open his or her heart again. 

Not this eBook!  This one comes complete with highly effective tools you need to carefully weigh when it's the right time to move to the next stage --or not.


Why is this important? Because you will be able to avoid explosive episodes that are common in this process and get going surprisingly fast and with a lot less sweat and tears than you might expect.

 

I guess the big question playing on your mind is, “Why should I believe you?”


You're right to ask this question. There are so many of "this will get your ex back" promises out there but much of the advice is either generic or just plain unhelpful. 
 

Hi, my name is Yangki Christine Akiteng a.k.a Toronto's Number 1 Date Doctor a.k.a. The Real People's Love Doctor.  And here are THREE really good reasons why you can believe me when I tell you that this e-book can and will absolutely, positively help you attract your ex back.
 

#1: The first really good reason why you can believe me is: I'm living proof that whatever you find in my e-Book works.


For many years -- because of my fear of commitment,  I was the Queen of On-And-Off Again Relationships. Don't even get me started.
BUT I managed to turn things around for myself, get back someone I had driven away several times and had given up on me.

 

So yes, I’ve been right where you’re at. In this e-Book I take you by the hand --literally --and lead you step by step so that you do not make the mistakes I made!

#2: The second really good reason why you can believe me is: This is an e-Book written by a real practicing successful full-time Dating & Relationships Coach with astounding success in love reunions. 
My success rate -- those who get back with their ex and stay in love- is about 90% and can be higher as some people do not write or call to tell me they are back with their ex, may be because they are too busy enjoying their relationships or are afraid that they'll somehow jinx the relationship!  You'll have all the benefit of my experience and my knowledge of what exactly works - and what doesn't!


#3:
The third really good reason why you can believe me is: I’m the author of three other helpful e-Books and over 300 dating and relationships articles that have helped thousands worldwide transform the way they date and relate and increase their chances of attracting love and creating the relationships of their dreams. Not only will you be able to get your ex back, but you'll be able to keep him or her in a loving lasting relationship!
 

Save countless hours of time, researching, implementing and testing to see what works...


I've already done that for you.
All you have to do is uncover interaction and feedback strategies that are specific, relevant and time–bound.

Not only will the eBook help you figure out what your ex really wants and then give it to him or her, you will be able to make timely, well-considered and love-motivated decisions and choose the best action possible with the information you have available.

You will have the COURAGE AND CONFIDENCE to move forward because you feel like I am holding your hand --literally --and leading you step by step all the way to getting your ex back.

You will know EXACTLY:

when to make contact with your ex

what to say and how to act when you see them again

how to talk about getting back together

what to say if your ex starts being really negative e.g. "I don't know about us..."

what to do if your ex is undecided or wants to be friends for a start

what to say and how to act if your ex has another man/woman

what to say if your ex doesn’t think things will work between the two of you because of distance

how to handle your ex's (to be expected) habit of getting close and pulling back


For the First Time...Receive
breakthrough Plan of Action and Real-Life Examples That Are simple, concise, and most of all, You Can Easily Follow...

Having a roadmap makes the difference between getting back your ex and always struggling, or messing things up to the point that you completely kill any chance you might have had.

This is probably the only eBook on getting your ex back (I know. I researched) that's more focused exclusively on the
active ingredients of dialogue and core actions key to creating real and strong emotions that translate into liking and love.

It does not overwhelm you with a lot of nicely worded ideas but answers your most frequently asked questions clearly and succinctly This makes it a handy resource you can always turn for direction at any stage of attracting back your ex.


Success Story #1
The guidance and wisdom in this e-Book will help anyone

My boyfriend and I communicated only briefly just after he broke it off with me.  I was in so much pain that I completely cut off contact because that's what I read in other "get your ex back" books. And although I should have known better than to go down that road, I was so desperate to do anything to get him back.  That didn't do it, so I thought distance will, and moved to another state. But after reading your e-Book, I realized that keeping my distance, pretending that I had moved on and not telling him where I was and how I felt was the wrong thing to do. I had given him plenty of reason to fall out of love with me and here I was doing exactly the things that made us break-up. 

I did wonder though, if I stayed away too long and if he had gotten  used to not seeing or hearing from me.  I followed your advice on how to re-enter his life, and after four weeks of "friendly but not just friends", I felt --just as you wrote -- that the timing for telling him I want him back was right.  I was scared to death that he'd not want me back, so I took the "indirect-direct approach".  Everything I wanted to tell him for the last 16-months we've been apart came rushing out. Again I followed your advice and ended with "What do you want to see happen?" He took my hand kissed it and told me he never stopped loving me.

I have since moved back to California and our relationship has returned to exactly how it was when we first began dating -- even better.

The guidance and wisdom in this e-Book will help anyone, even the person who is actively dating and looking for love because most likely along the way they'll make some mistakes and lose the love they found. It doesn't hurt to be prepared!

Jenn C. - Huntington Beach, California, United States
 

 

If you feel like giving up because nothing—absolutely nothing—you try works, this guide will work for you ...


The last thing you need right now is to simply be told, “Don’t be stupid. Move on", "Find someone new", "There is plenty of fish in the sea”, "I never liked him anyway," or "I never understood what you saw in her," and the ever-popular line, "Honestly, you'll be better off without him/her!"

Instead of living your life running away from what you don't want, try running towards what you do - and that is get back together with your ex!

 


Success Story #2
Positive good advice is exactly what I needed!

I received an email from him yesterday saying he missed me, and I have been thinking about it ever since. I have reasons to be cheerful. This is the second time in two days he has emailed me saying he enjoys spending time with me again.

This e-Book is a complete contrast to almost everything I have done to try to get back my ex in the last six weeks. The advice is overwhelmingly positive compared to all the negative advice I’ve be getting about second chances and being told he is not that into me. I could actually feel your love and genuine caring in each and every page! Positive good advice is exactly what I needed!

My chances seem really good and I am excited thinking, “what next? May be he is reconsidering his options". I am however not rushing into interpretation of the sudden change.
Right now I am just glad for the time together.

This makes so much sense to me, guess why a lot of my relationships before my ex, and since my ex have been 2 months duration in total, cause I would wear it out in the beginning. Well, now I am learning to take a step back, and let love be a slow process.

Yvette - Holliston, Massachusetts, United States
 

 

Wouldn't It Be Worth it to spend a few
dollars and quickly Get a plan to get your ex back real soon?


This book works even for long distance relationships -- another city, state, country or continent! 

 

Distance can't stop true love!!!  And Dating Your ex is all about true love.  No dirty tricks and no mind games.  Only love.

 

So yes, you may not be able to physically be there with your ex, but you will be able to establish proactive communication which offers a sense of bonding and creates a yearning that makes seeing each other again all the more appealing!

 


Success Story #3
It worked wonders for my long distance relationship!

I would like to thank you for your book. Before I bought it, I did wonder if it would work or not. Because of my complete lack of experience, the woman I love had not spoken to me in 4 months. We got into a fight and it got down and dirty. I wasn’t respecting her need for relationship security and she wasn't respecting my need for freedom.  So the break-up was mutual. But I kept seeing her at parties and I felt as if there was still something there. 

I read your e-Book and realized that to get her back I had to learn how to be emotionally intimate with her and not fear to speak my mind and ask for what I want directly, something I really struggled with before. I followed your advice and got my ex back.

No one ever explained emotional intimacy to me the way you  explained it. I totally get it now. We are both getting exactly what we wanted from each other. Our bond has grown stronger and laughter flows easily.

I wholeheartedly recommend this e-Book. It hit home on many of the topics that I've struggled with, or needed more info on ... I think you have compiled a great resource, in a very straight forward nuts and bolts book.

Drew H. - Atlanta, Georgia, United States
 

 

You can start taking action right away...

 

Knowing that you are taking the first steps to actually getting your ex back can make you feel a whole lot better -- and fast!

Using the real-time strategies in my eBook, you can start correcting the problems caused by earlier misguided words and actions, open up new possibilities, regain your ex's trust, melt objections away and truly, deeply engage your ex starting from day one!

 


Success Story #4
It's fantastic... insightful... to the point...

My ex and I have been doing the on and off thing for about two years and 2 months. We split and got back back together 3 times. A year and a half ago, we broke up again and I guess we both had had enough and decided that it was never going to work out.

Days after reading your e-Book, I called her. We went out and I told her I've been reading "Dating Your Ex" and many things in the e-Book made me realize how I could have done things differently with her. She came over to my place and we talked. I asked her if she wanted to give it another chance but she said that she didn't know yet. She left and told me she'd get back to me in a few days. After a week of not hearing from her, I called her but she didn't take my call and didn't reply to any of my emails. She sent me one short email saying "Working through some stuff. Will get back to you in a few days". I must admit I was a little ticked off. Exactly two weeks and four days later, she showed up at my doorstep. Her exact words when I opened the door were, "True love overcomes all the three!" Apparently she went and bought your e-Book too .

She's definitely THE ONE! I don't feel like I am dating my ex, I feel like I am dating a new woman! We're both better people from before and our relationship has never been this great.

I highly recommend Christine's e-Book. It's fantastic, insightful... to the point.

Alberto Gonzales - Windsor, Ontario, Canada

 

Inside this 247-pages Step-By-Step Guide
are several KEY points

How do you know if you should ask to try again or try to move on?

10 things you can do to make sure you have success

When does "no contact" work and when doesn't it work?

When is it acceptable to contact your ex again after a break-up - when is soon too soon?

What to do if there has been so much damage done to the relationship

How to deal with and respond to an angry, indifferent or hostile ex in a way that will cause him or her to put his or her guard down

How do you initiate contact after a period of no communication at all?

The powerful apology that holds much hope for the future.

How do you inspire your ex to want to spend time with you -- talk to you on the phone and go out on dates with you?

How do you know if your ex wants you back? Words and actions that tell you that the ball is in your court.

When is the right time to ask your ex if he or she wants to get back together?

How to talk about getting back together.

How do you get past "No" and get to "Yes"?

Some common barriers and how to remove them

If your ex asks for more time, how long do you wait for an answer?

If your ex wants to try being friends to start with, how do you cause him or her to rethink your “friendship” and open up to the possibility of something more?

How do you prove to your ex that you have changed and deserve another chance?

It's your ex who wants you back, how do you make sure you don't get hurt again?

Ex sex - will it reignite the passion and what do you do if you're already into sex and your ex seems content with just being sex-buddies?

How do you know when your ex is just using you and stringing you along and how do you tell him or her what you want?

How do you handle the connecting and pulling back again?

The "secret" that will guarantee your relationship will last.

It's been a while and your ex isn't exactly clawing your clothes off. What gives?

What do you do when you feel that you are giving too much and getting nothing or little in return?

How to keep the passion alive and the relationship fresh

Signs that your relationship is blossoming, maturing and going the right direction.

Warning signs that say your relationship is heading towards another break-up.

Handling situations that may lead to another break-up.

When and how to ask for exclusivity and/or more commitment?

...And much more...

So what Will you give up for love?
But rather, what won't you give up for love?

Not giving up on love is not just a matter of pressing forward and not giving up, you have to make sure what you are doing is working otherwise doing what's not working can cause more damage to any chances of reconciliation.

You have to know what you are doing.

Many men and women when I tell them that you need a plan of action if you want to get your ex back ask me “why can’t I just call him/her up and tell him/her I want him/her back? Isn’t life all about taking risks?”

You can jump off the 20th Floor of a building believing that life is all about taking risks but what are your chances of survival? One out of a zillion.

But if you had some kind of parachute or an
action plan that would guarantee you that you'd land safely on your two feet, wouldn't you take the risk, enjoy the ride and land safely?
 

a  BREAK UP doesn't always mean the end of a relationship... things can be re-started!

I am sure there is someone that you need
to Get Back
...

May be right now you feel that there is just no hope.  I can understand that.  Most people who have lost someone they care for deeply are, feel lost and hopeless. You have no idea what your ex wants, and you can act and talk to your ex without him/her getting all worked up. If this is you, take heart.

Your situation may not feel as as hopeless once you have a clear, actionable and proven step-by-step plan for attracting back back your loved one. 

The "
emotional tools" in the eBook  helps you face the process with more confidence, but more than that, they show you EXACTLY how to be the person your ex fell in love with  -- and renew the attraction your ex had for you.
 


Success Story #5
Worth every penny!

I bought your e-Book and read all of it in one night. The next day, I called my ex and asked him to meet me for coffee. We hadn’t seen or spoken to each other since he broke up with me last month. He was a little cold at first but I followed your advice on persisting without being aggressive and he agreed. I again followed your advice on introducing the idea of getting back together and he said that he didn’t think I have changed in such a short time but was ready to be friends for a start.

At first I was the one who called him and he never called me unless I called him, so again I used your advice on drawing someone into the decision making process. He started to call me instead of me calling him all the time. He has asked me out two times in a row. He says I am a “different” woman because I am more relaxed and not putting pressure on him to do what I now know will happen naturally. I am following your advice on keeping the relationship fresh, fun and meaningful. Everything you wrote in your e-Book has worked this far, I am confident that everything else is going to work too. I will email you again in a few weeks to tell you how things are going.

Thank you very much. Worth every penny!

Dr. Armando- Toronto, Ontario, Canada
 

You just have to accept that your love
is worth saving!

Time passes, all too quickly. Blink... your ex is gone.  Hesitate - he or she thinks you've moved on. Pause - some other man or woman has taken your place.  Negative? Excruciating? Depressing? Sad?

Painful thoughts, yes, but theses are nothing compared to the lifelong regrets that you will suffer with words left unspoken and those things that were never done because you didn't have the courage to reach out to the person you dearly care for and love.
 


Success Story #6
I needed to do things very differently...

Several times I invited my ex out to do things and he declined the offer. It always left me feeling crushed and rejected.

After reading "Dating Your Ex" I thought I'd give it another try using the "cooperation-seeking" approach. He gave me his usual distant and kind of cold brush off, but I did the "there'll be a next time" move and to my utter surprise he said "what do you want to do?". I've never had this kind of reaction from him before. We watched a movie and went for ice cream. Neither of us brought up anything too heavy during conversation, which was cool. As we parted, I asked him if he would like to do something else some time and he said "sure, give me a call". He later called to see if I reached home. He has never called me since we broke up.

I am so glad I never gave up on my ex. Everyone told me he was a no-good jerk but in my heart I knew I was not perfect either. I am concentrating on being a better me and being careful to act sensibly and focusing on the present and the future rather than the past.

Thank you for the good sound and candid advice. I needed to do things very differently. 

Carolynne -- Louisville, Kentucky, United States

 


When confusion sets in and your decisions are clouded by your emotions, it is best to reach out for a helping hand
! 

 

If there are things – good, bad, and ugly – about your ex that still warm your heart (and, um, loins?), if you can remember more good than bad things about the time you were together, give love a chance!!.

Buy the eBook and if there are is something about your unique situation that you need help clarifying, putting into perspective or overcoming, simply email me with your unique situation or call me for a 30 MINUTES FREE PHONE chat.

 

Most authors do not offer this kind of help when you buy their books, for me this is not just about selling a book, this is about re-uniting two people who are meant to be together.

 

This new chapter of your relationship can be even more exciting and fulfilling than the last one!
 


Success Story #7
I recommend this book to anyone currently contemplating giving up...

My girlfriend of 2 yrs and I got back together last night. We broke up 6 weeks ago but continued hanging out together because we really enjoy each other’s company and we are best friends. We were friends before we became lovers and I NEVER thought she would dump me.  She frequently told me that I was "the one" and that we would always be together. But she dumped me!!

Needless to say, I was crushed and I tried everything (WUSS) and it didn't work. All I got from her was "You are a great guy, but I'm not in love with you".

At this point, I just realized all hope was lost and started working on moving on. That's when I came across your website.  I bought your e-Book and followed every step. Last night she stayed at my place and we sat from around midnight to morning talking about “us”. We just kissed and held hands. She was surprised that her toothbrush was still in the holder on the sink. She told me she wants to get back together and to let whatever happens, happen.

I recommend this book to anyone who is currently contemplating giving up the hopes of getting their ex back.

Kenny --