really still love your ex and want him or her back,
why else would you be reading this page?
You've probably been
told, exes are exes for a reason, that people never
get back together once they break up, and that there
are many fish in the sea. But you still want your ex
back, you love him/her.
I'm here to tell you, shake off all the negativity
I've seen two people who still have strong feelings
for each other find their way back to each other.
I've seen relationships that no one thought had a
chance blossom again. I've seen people who called it
off but realized they made a huge mistake get
another chance. I've seen it happen, because I
helped make it happen!
done the begging, pleading,
apologizing, writing long love letters, sending
gifts and promising your ex all sorts of things, but
only came across as needy, desperate,
and even "crazy" -- or may be your ex told
you he/she never wants anything to do with you,
don't give up just yet. Not yet!
There is a very high possibility that the way you have been
approaching the situation is ineffective -- and
Certain actions cause more distance between you and
your ex. Let me go through a few of them.
"I'll change" or "I’ve changed" move
-- Your ex may want you to change some aspects of
yourself that caused him or her to walk away from
the relationship, but saying "I'll change" or "I’ve
changed" screams desperation, which is never
attractive. No one likes hearing that you "changed"
for them. They don't like feeling that they owe you
something because you did something for them.
"I want us to have a better relationship."
-- Consider that statement for a moment. If you could not make
the relationship better before, what makes you think
your ex will believe you are sincere in making it
"I have suggestions to improve the relationship."
-- Good luck with that! Your ex may listen
attentively but next time you talk to him or her,
they still say there is 'something missing' or they
'don’t think it will work. And if your ex is still
angry and resentful towards you for any reason,
everything you suggest will be shot down
"I just want us to be friends." -- You may think
this statement seems harmless because it would allow
you to openly communicate with your ex while keeping
enough distance to rekindle what was lost. However,
your ex may assume that all you really want is to
just be friends. In the end you only make it harder
for yourself because when you attempt to get back
together he/she may throw it in your face or feel
Now, you may be thinking it is then best to say and
do nothing at all. Not contact your ex for x
number of weeks/months and see what happens.
Realistic strategy? Let's do a reality check.
Scenario 1 -- You don't contact your ex and your ex
doesn't contact you either.
You both move on.
Scenario 2 -- You don't contact your ex and your ex
contacts you. Nice!
You respond, they respond... then suddenly... they
stop contacting you. You contact them several times
and... NO CONTACT. Ha ha ha! Tables turned!
Scenario 3 -- You don't contact your ex for
sometime... and then you contact him/her!
He or she responds... but only to tell you they've
MOVED ON (may be with someone else!) or responds
every now and then but it's like you are bothering
him/her or something.
Like it or not, this is the reality of No Contact!
Thinking that your ex will miss you because
you're no longer contacting them is
admirable confidence. We all want to believe
our ex is pinning over us and spending much
of their time thinking of us. That would
really be nice!
But mind games are not appealing to everyone, and
your ex may either be turned off or play along to
teach you a lesson.
A woman emailed me in tears. She had emailed one of
those "No Contact" script emails to her ex. He wrote
back "I completely agree. This relationship was so
toxic that any kind of contact now or ever will pull
us back to what we both don't want. I'll work on
myself as you continue to work on yourself. We will
both attract better people as a result. I wish you
all the best in life. Please do not ever contact me
again. Thank you very much".
Ooops! That's not what she expected -- and
definitely NOT what she wanted!
yourself out of the picture, you leave your
ex no option but to learn to live without
you. Over time your ex's life begins to
change... he or she is meeting new
friends... doing new things... going out to
You come back after your "No Contact" ... A
LOT has happened and changed!
1. But why would you want to start over
when you can try to fix the old relationship? What
can a fresh start do that you can't do with the old
You have a romantic history together.
Your ex knows you, or at least thinks he or she
knows the person he or she thinks you are.
He/she is still looking at you and the possibility
of a better relationship based on the past.
Starting all-over gives you the opportunity to
introduce yourself to your ex again. Not the "old
you" but the "new you".
You've had time to think about things you shouldn't
have done but did, and things you should have done,
but didn't. You've made some changes for the better,
and you now realize more than ever how important
your ex is to you.
Your ex doesn't know all that!
But how do you get to know each other again when
you've already been in a relationship, may be even
lived together, married or have kids?
Get your ex looking forward to the future again. Not
back at the past which trying to mend a damaged
relationship tends to do.
More than any approach or strategy, starting over is
the practice that creates real results. It is not
only a more effective way to achieve your goal, it
is also the fastest.
Before I go any further, I want
you to read some of the things people are saying
about the effectiveness of Dating Your Ex
approach to getting your ex back...
It's fantastic... insightful... to the point...
My ex and I have been doing the on and off thing for about two years and 2 months. We split and got back back together 3 times. A year and a half ago, we broke up again and I guess we both had had enough and decided that it was never going to work out.
Days after reading your e-Book, I called her. We went out and I told her I've been reading "Dating Your Ex" and many things in the e-Book made me realize how I could have done things differently with her. She came over to my place and we talked. I asked her if she wanted to give it another chance but she said that she didn't know yet. She left and told me she'd get back to me in a few days. After a week of not hearing from her, I called her but she didn't take my call and didn't reply to any of my emails. She sent me one short email saying "Working through some stuff. Will get back to you in a few days". I must admit I was a little ticked off. Exactly two weeks and four days later, she showed up at my doorstep. Her exact words when I opened the door were, "True love overcomes all the three!" Apparently she went and bought your e-Book too .
She's definitely THE ONE! I don't feel like I am dating my ex, I feel like I am dating a new woman! We're both better people from before and our relationship has never been this great.
I highly recommend Christine's e-Book. It's fantastic, insightful... to the point.
Alberto Gonzales - Windsor, Ontario, Canada
The guidance and wisdom in this eBook
will help anyone
My boyfriend and I communicated only briefly just after
he broke it off with me. I was in so much pain
that I completely cut off contact because that's what I
read in other "get your ex back" books. And although I
should have known better than to go down that road, I
was so desperate to do anything to get him back.
That didn't do it, so I thought distance will, and moved
to another state. But after reading your e-Book, I
realized that keeping my distance, pretending that I had
moved on and not telling him where I was and how I felt
was the wrong thing to do. I had given him plenty of
reason to fall out of love with me and here I was doing
exactly the things that made us break-up.
I did wonder
though, if I stayed away too long and if he had gotten
used to not seeing or hearing from me. I followed
your advice on how to re-enter his life, and after four
weeks of "friendly but not just friends", I felt --just
as you wrote -- that the timing for telling him I want
him back was right. I was scared to death that
he'd not want me back, so I took the "indirect-direct
approach". Everything I wanted to tell him for the
last 16-months we've been apart came rushing out. Again
I followed your advice and ended with "What do you want
to see happen?"
took my hand kissed it and told me he never stopped
I have since moved back to
California and our relationship has returned to exactly
how it was when we first began dating -- even better.
The guidance and wisdom in this e-Book will help anyone,
even the person who is actively dating and looking for
love because most likely along the way they'll make some
mistakes and lose the love they found. It doesn't hurt
to be prepared!
Jenn C. -
Huntington Beach, California, United States
Not Just Another "Get Back Your Ex "
ideas look really
good in theory and
any advice can
look good on paper, but in practise
it may not work near as well or even at all.
Using the principles of emotional intelligence and
effectiveness, Dating Your Ex:
You'll know exactly when and how to
make contact with your ex in an
emotionally impact-full way, know what to say
and how to act in ways that demonstrate to your ex
that you're a better person and a better partner,
and as a result they can expect a better
Some of the most difficult to
negotiate through aspects of the
process covered in the book include:
re-establishing contact and
re-introducing yourself to your ex
What to do
if there has been so much damage done to
with your ex in ways that help move
things forward faster
How to act on phone and
when you meet
face-to-face for the first time
How to show your ex
that you have changed and deserve
What to do and how to act when your ex wants
Winning back your ex even when
there is someone else
When and how
to talk about getting back together
without creating any pressure
How to handle things if your
ex wants to be "just friends"
What to say and do when your ex wants more
time to decide
Handling the pull and push
persistently push forward when things
are moving too slowly
Red flags your ex is stringing
you along/using you
...And much more...
What About If An ex says he/She
Still Loves You
He/She Is Not In Love With You
Can The EBook Still Work For
YES. The advice is the eBook works with an ex back
who says he/she no longer feels that "excitement"
of the earlier days.
But I'll be very honest with you. It will take more work and longer
to get him/her back. But it can
be done -- and has been done!
See, when the feeling of being in love (excitement)
is still there, it means he/she has NOT lost
interest in you as a person. What it means is that,
for whatever number of reasons, he lost interest in
being in the relationship. Your ONLY challenge is to get
him/her interested in the relationship, again.
But when that feeling of excitement is gone (he/she
has lost interest in you as a romantic interest), your challenge is
two-fold. 1) get him/her to again be interested in
you and 2) get him/her interested in a relationship
If there were negative feelings (anger reactions,
words said or things done, acting needy and pathetic
etc) during and after the break-up, your challenge
is three-fold. 1) get him/her to want to talk to
you, 2) get him/her interested in you again and 3)
get him/her interested in a relationship with you.
Dating Your Ex addresses 1) re-establishing
contact, 2) getting your ex to warm up to you, and
3) demonstrating in words and actions what it'd be
like to be in a relationship with you, if he/she
decided to come back.
I needed to do things very
Several times I invited my ex out to
do things and he declined the offer.
It always left me feeling
crushed and rejected.
After reading "Dating
Your Ex" I thought I'd give it
another try using the
"cooperation-seeking" approach. He
gave me his usual distant and kind of cold
brush off, but I did the "there'll
be a next time" move and to my utter
surprise he said "what do you want
to do?". I've never had this kind
of reaction from him before. We
watched a movie and went for ice
cream. Neither of us brought up
anything too heavy during
conversation, which was cool. As we
parted, I asked him if he would like
to do something else some time and
he said "sure, give me a call". He
later called to see if I reached
home. He has never
called me since
we broke up.
I am so glad I never gave up on my
ex. Everyone told me he was a
no-good jerk but in my heart I knew
I was not perfect either. I am
concentrating on being a better me
and being careful to act sensibly
and focusing on the present and the
future rather than the past.
Thank you for the
good sound and candid advice.
I needed to do things very
You Think Your
Relationship is so damaged That It Is too Late
may be. Too late... may be not?
We all have said things and done things we wish we had not said
or done. So yes, may be you've made so many
mistakes or may it just seems like
the love is gone and there is
nothing you can do about it.
But it doesn't necessarily mean
you can't turn things around!
Love can be beat up by so many
things going on in the relationship.
It can grow weak due to failure to
nurture it. But if you're willing to
do whatever it takes to give it a
chance to flourish again, it CAN and it WILL.
May be you're thinking "You just don't know
my ex. Nothing will work."
And you're right!
I don't know your ex the way you do.
And may be s/he is really angry with you... but
that's exactly where you need to start...
Dating Your Ex tells you exactly how to deal with an angry ex,
one who wants no contact, one who still loves you but is
resisting his or her feelings, one who is setting up roadblock
This is the best advice I have found!
I have read your eBook and I love it! It is the best advice I have found. EVER! And believe me, I have been looking because I have been divorced 3 times and I wanted to stay married this last time, but didn't make it happen. I made all the mistakes possible. Now, we are dating. I started to make the same mistakes again and, fortunately I downloaded the eBook. Now, I know it is possible that we might get back together, and before reading it, it was guaranteed that we wouldn't just based on my stupid and needy behavior. How can I help you get the eBook out there even more? It's so worth it.
guess the big question on
your mind is,
“Why should I believe
I have the
and I have practical hands-on
Hi, my name is
Toronto's Number 1
a.k.a. The Dating
Your Ex Coach.
I'm just one of the
many authors of "Get
Back Your Ex Back"
books-- and we are
many! If you do a
little check up,
you'll find that
these books are
written by men and
women who have good
theories and good
money, of course),
but very few of
these authors have
and experience uniting couples.
Dating Your Ex, you have the benefit of not just
the knowledge of "how to get
your ex back" but PRACTICAL
of what works in REAL LIFE --
and what doesn't.This
is an e-Book written by
a real practicing successful
Coach with REAL success in
The Right ACTION...the Right
In The Right DIRECTION
This is probably the only eBook
on getting your ex back (I know.
I researched) that's more
focused exclusively on balancing
drawing the other person close
and giving him or her the space
he or she needs.
While there is no magic formula
for success getting your ex
back, there are essential
elements that contribute to
eventually making your ex want
to come back.
With Dating Your Ex, you are not
just experimenting with some
theories about what it takes to
get one's ex back, you are
actually working with concepts
backed up by real-life
Not only will Dating Your Ex
eBook help you figure out what
your ex really wants and then
give it to him or her, you will
be able to make timely,
love-motivated decisions and
choose the best action possible
with the information you have
Worth every penny!
I bought your
e-Book and read all of it in one
night. The next day, I called my ex
and asked him to meet me for coffee.
We hadn’t seen or spoken to each
other since he broke up with me last
month. He was a little cold at first
but I followed your advice on
persisting without being aggressive
and he agreed. I again followed your
advice on introducing the idea of
getting back together and he said
that he didn’t think I have changed
in such a short time but was ready
to be friends for a start.
At first I was the one who called
him and he never called me unless I
called him, so again I used your
advice on drawing someone into
the decision making process. He
started to call me instead of me
calling him all the time. He has
asked me out two times in a row. He
says I am a “different” woman
because I am more relaxed and not
putting pressure on him to do what I
now know will happen naturally. I am
following your advice on keeping the
relationship fresh, fun and
meaningful. Everything you wrote in
your e-Book has worked this far, I
am confident that everything else is
going to work too. I will email you
again in a few weeks to tell you how
things are going.
Thank you very much. Worth every
Dr. Armando- Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Is There Someone Else In The
Let That Not
Most people when they hear
that their ex is looking around or
now seeing someone new feel hopeless.
But your situation may not
feel as as hopeless once you
have a clear, actionable and
proven step-by-step plan for
attracting back back your
whole chapter is committed to
dealing with the presence of someone
new in your ex's life. The "emotional
tools" in the eBook help you face the process
with more confidence, but
more than that they show
you how to
renew the attraction your ex
had for you despite there
being someone new in your
Not Even Distance Should Stop
Dating Your Ex
works even for long distance
relationships -- another city,
state, country or continent!
While you may not be able
to physically be there with
your ex, you will be
able to establish proactive
communication which offers a
sense of bonding and creates
a yearning that
seeing each other
again all the more
It worked for my
long distance relationship!
I would like to thank you for your book.
Before I bought it, I did wonder if
it would work or not. Because of my complete
lack of experience, the woman I love had not spoken to me in 4 months.
We got into
a fight and it
got down and dirty. I wasn’t respecting her need for
relationship security and she wasn't
respecting my need for freedom. So the break-up was mutual.
I kept seeing her at parties and I felt
as if there was still something there.
your e-Book and realized that to get her
back I had to learn how
to be emotionally intimate with her and not fear
to speak my mind and ask for what I want
directly, something I really struggled with before.
I followed your advice and got my ex back.
No one ever explained emotional intimacy to
me the way you explained it. I
totally get it now. We are both getting
exactly what we wanted from
each other. Our bond has grown
stronger and laughter flows easily.
I wholeheartedly recommend this e-Book.
It hit home on many of the topics that I've
struggled with, or needed more info on ... I
think you have compiled a great resource, in
a very straight forward nuts and bolts book.
Drew H. - Atlanta, Georgia,
have to know what you are doing
you can to
get your ex
Not giving up on love is not just a
matter of pressing forward, you have to
what you are doing is working otherwise
doing what's not working can cause more
damage to any chances of reconciliation.
Many men and women when I tell them that
you need a plan of action if you want to
get your ex back ask me “why can’t I
just call him/her up and tell him/her I
want him/her back? Isn’t life all about
You can jump off the 20th Floor of a
building believing that life is all
about taking risks but what are your
chances of survival? One out of a
But if you had some kind of parachute or
action plan that would guarantee you
that you'd land safely on your two feet,
wouldn't you take the risk, enjoy the
ride and land safely?
now I am
my ex in
now I am
Your Break-Up Can Become The
The Relationship You Always Wanted!
been told that it is a bad idea to get back with an ex.
That an ex is an ex for a reason. That there are
many fish in the sea.
That second and third chances never happen. That you
are a fool for wanting your ex back.
You've heard it all, but you still want to try
because you still love your ex and you still miss
him/her very much. You could go find yourself
someone else, but you don't want someone else. You
want your ex back.
are things – good, bad, and ugly – about
your ex that still warm your heart (and,
um, loins?), if you can remember more
good than bad things about the time you
were together, give love a chance!!
This new chapter of your relationship
can be even more exciting and fulfilling
than the last one!
To put it simply, if you’re serious
about winning back the heart of your ex,
this eBook gives you the knowledge and
practical tools you need to make your ex
feel those feelings of love again, even
if (right now) you are the only one who
is willing to work on the relationship!
I recommend this
book to anyone currently contemplating
My girlfriend of 2 yrs and I
got back together last
night. We broke up 6 weeks
ago but continued hanging
out together because we
really enjoy each other’s
company and we are best
friends. We were friends
before we became lovers and
I NEVER thought she would
dump me. She
frequently told me that I
was "the one" and that we
would always be together.
But she dumped me!!
Needless to say, I was
crushed and I tried
everything (WUSS) and it
didn't work. All I got from
her was "You are a great
guy, but I'm not in love
At this point, I just
realized all hope was lost
and started working on
moving on. That's when I
came across your website.
I bought your e-Book and
followed every step. Last
night she stayed at my place
and we sat from around
midnight to morning talking
about “us”. We just kissed
and held hands. She was
surprised that her
toothbrush was still in the
holder on the sink. She told
me she wants to get back
together and to let whatever
I recommend this book to
anyone who is currently
contemplating giving up the
hopes of getting their ex
Des Moines, Iowa,
Will You be
able to Have
mean is that
all you have
to do is
quit or take
“no” for an
out to your
road and a
it all you
Ex helps you
that you can
possible despite how
things look at the
months ago I could never
have believed that we could
be back together. My ex told
me he wanted nothing to do
with me and he was moving
on, even started dating
And for weeks I was
wallowing around in
confusion. I wasn't sure
what to do next. Then
I came across your e-Book.
I did exactly the stuff that
you talked about and
I attracted him back into my
everyone there, I just want
to say everything is
possible despite how things
look at the moment.
Read Christine's book, it's
amazing and her advice
Thank you so much.
Darlene S. Vancouver British Columbia Canada
Your Ex Is
ex back is
your ex is
open to the
But this may
not be the
least not in
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even if your
ex says they
Turn the conversation around and capture
your ex's attention and affection.
Diffuse your ex's anger and resentment
by showing your ex that you “get it.
Initiate small conversations without
stirring up confrontation.
Keep calm and in control of your
emotions even if your ex makes you
End the unhelpful behaviours and replace
them with positive actions.
Using the real-time
strategies in my eBook,
you can start correcting the problems
caused by earlier misguided
words and actions,
open up new possibilities,
regain your ex's trust, melt
objections away and truly,
deeply engage your ex starting
from day one!
of you and
is based on
He or she
you get your
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a vision of
your ex even
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and focus on
term goal of
ex back in
your arms --
that to see
if it works!
a number of
to track how
well you are
will have a
idea as to
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